I think this topic is getting way out of hand. I don't see what the
problem is. If a wife wants to ride with her husband, for example, to
give him driving tips, why is this such a crime? Because he's really
getting such an unfair advantage?
What if that wife weighs 223 pounds? And they're in a new Mini?
And just because a novice has an experienced driver riding with her, it
doesn't necessarily mean that advice is any good. I can't tell you how
many times I've ridden with novices, only to have them slow down, and
politely say, "Yes, I see what you're saying, now get out."
I personally DON'T like riding, even as an instructor, because I find
the experience terrifying. I really can't believe how fast people drive.
And besides my co-driver who graciously shares his car with me, I don't
like having passengers, because they change the balance of the car.
But you know, sometimes, it's such an ego boost, when someone comes up
to you and asks for a ride, and then afterwards, they grin all wide-eyed
and say, "Oh. I thought you were good." But anyway, that person, if he
or she enjoyed it all, leaves with something positive.
And regarding having a competitor who has a better instructor than you,
and beats you, I've been in that situation. It made me mad at first, but
then I realized her superior driving skills, natural or taught (who
cares?), made ME a better driver. So, I'm all for people being the best
that they can be.
As far as "abusers" go, consider that with abuse comes dependence. The
abuse weakens that person.
I feel that autocrossing, and learning how to do it well, is a gift. In
my opinion, autocrossers have just as much driving talent as world class
professionals, but due to different situations, dreams, and backgrounds,
we're stuck in this parking lot. But the beautiful thing is, just about
every weekend, we're presented with an opportunity to share some pretty
impressive skills. The next time you watch the news, think about the
last time you enjoyed a four-wheel drift. And how special that
four-wheel drift was, having a friend screaming in your ear, "OH MY
GAWD!" That should put this all into perspective.
Katie K.
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